Sister Hinckley's Example at Christmas Time

Several years ago I read this story from the book, Glimpses Into The Life and Heart of Marjorie Pay Hinckley. It's one of my favorite quotes about Christmas time and luckily, my Mother-in-law called to ask for the quote this morning and I was able to be reminded of Sister Hinckley's wise council again.  Since I typed it up to send to my mother-in-law, I thought I would share it here as well:

Janet Lee, wife of the late Rex E. Lee, former president of Brigham Young University, remembers an occasion when Sister Hinckley’s optimistic outlook changed her own perspective:

Several years ago, during the Christmas season, President and Sister Hinckley came to BYU for a musical event.  Before the program, there was a buffet dinner, and at one point while the men were away from our table, the women began to talk about the frustrations of getting ready for Christmas.  Our conversation focused on the fact that everything about the season was becoming a burden for women.  We bear the responsibility of selecting gifts, organizing social events, preparing everyone’s favorite food, and making certain that family, guest, and even the less fortunate have a merry Christmas.  We felt overwhelmed if not resentful.

Sister Hinckley listened patiently, and then without the slightest edge of criticism in her voice said,

 “I love Christmas.  It is the most joyful of all seasons.  I love seeing the eyes of little children light up on Christmas morning.  I love giving gifts.  I love being with my family.  We just need to simplify and remember what we are celebrating.”

After she had spoken, something magical happened.  Our attitudes shifted, and we began to talk about the birth of our Savior and the spirit of giving.  In the years that have passed since those words were spoken, a burden has been lifted for me during the holidays.  As I shop, prepare food, and join with friends and family to celebrate the birth of our Savior, her words nurture and calm me.  “I love Christmas,” I hear her say, and I let her teach me to relax and enjoy the season.